How do you reflect on the past year as a leader?

A year you don’t look back on is a year you mostly repeat.

Jay Sampat, Chief Mirror Holder · Drafted with AI · coach review pending · Updated · 8 min read

The short answer

Block one quiet hour in December and answer five questions honestly: what moment defined your year, what your team got better at, where most of your time went, what you’ll do differently next year and one word for the year. Write the answers down, then turn the fourth into one change you can see in January.

December has a particular feel when you lead a team. The plans for next year are half written, the last deadlines are still live, and there is a party or two to get through. Somewhere in there is a moment when you could stop and ask how the year actually went. Most leaders let it pass.

That is a shame, because looking back properly is one of the cheapest and most useful things a leader can do. It doesn’t need a workshop or a template. It needs an hour, a few honest questions and the willingness to write down answers you might not like.

This post covers why it’s worth doing, the five questions that do most of the work, what a real review looks like, and how to turn it into one change for next year.

Why should leaders reflect on the past year at all?

Because reflection turns experience into learning, and a year of leading is a lot of experience to waste. Without a pause, most of it just becomes the way you do things.

There is good evidence for this. Giada Di Stefano, Francesca Gino, Gary Pisano and Bradley Staats studied it in a working paper called Learning by Thinking. As Harvard Business School Working Knowledge reports, they asked new call centre staff in training to spend the last 15 minutes of each day writing about what they had learned. That group did 22.8 percent better on the final training test than a control group, even though the control group had worked 15 minutes longer each day.

In a separate study with students, the researchers found that reflecting made people feel more capable. Gino put it this way: when we stop and think about learning, “we feel a greater sense of self-efficacy.” Her practical conclusion was that “we should take time for reflection.”

Those studies were about days, not years. But the principle scales. If 15 minutes at the end of a day helps people learn from that day, an hour at the end of a year helps you learn from the year.

Why do so many leaders skip it?

Mostly because it feels like time off from real work, and because it isn’t obvious where to start.

Jennifer Porter, an executive coach, makes the point in Harvard Business Review. She notes that “Research has shown that reflection boosts productivity.” Then: “Yet few leaders make time for it.” One reason she gives is that leaders “often don’t know where to start.”

There are other reasons too, and you may recognise some of them.

  • The year isn’t finished. There is always one more thing to close before you can look back.
  • It feels self-indulgent. Thinking about your own year can seem less urgent than your team’s next one.
  • It might be uncomfortable. An honest look back can show things you would rather not see.
  • You already know how it went. Or you think you do, because you remember the plan, the pressure and the big results.

That last one is the trap. Your memory of the year is full of intentions. A proper look back checks those intentions against what actually happened.

What questions should you ask when reflecting on the year?

Five are enough. Each one looks at the year from a different side, and together they give you a fair picture without turning into a report.

  1. What moment defined your year? Not the biggest result. The moment you’d tell a friend about. A decision, a conversation, a crisis, a turning point. It tells you what actually mattered, as opposed to what was on the plan.
  2. What did your team get better at? This is the leader’s question. Your own results are only part of the story. What can your team do now that it couldn’t do in January, and how much of that came from you?
  3. Where did most of your time go? Firefighting, meetings, hiring, strategy, doing the work yourself? Be honest. The answer is often different from where you meant it to go.
  4. What will you do differently next year? One thing. Something you could start, stop or change, based on the first three answers.
  5. What one word sums up the year? It sounds light, but it isn’t. A single word forces you to choose, and the word you pick often says more than a page would.

Notice what isn’t on the list: a score. This isn’t a performance review. Nobody is grading you. The point is to see the year clearly enough to make next year a bit better.

Why does the time question matter so much?

Because time is the one record of your year that doesn’t flatter you. You can tell yourself you prioritised your people. Your calendar shows whether you did.

Most leaders, asked where their time went, give the answer they wish were true. Then they look at their calendar and find whole months that went to something else: a reorganisation, a difficult client, a gap in the team they filled themselves.

None of that is wrong. Some years are firefighting years. But you can’t change next year’s time if you’re not honest about this year’s. If you want a closer look at where your hours go week to week, the post on how to do a time audit as a leader walks through it, and Calendar Audit does it in a few minutes.

What does an end of year review look like in practice?

Here is a hypothetical example. A head of customer support has led a team of twelve for two years. In mid December, she blocks an hour on a Friday afternoon, closes her email and answers the five questions.

  • The moment that defined her year: “The week in March when the new system went live and everything broke. We got through it, but I spent five days doing tickets myself.”
  • What her team got better at: “Handling angry customers. Two people who used to escalate everything now handle the hardest calls without me.”
  • Where most of her time went: “Honestly, covering gaps. Two people left in the spring and I filled in for most of the summer.”
  • What she’ll do differently next year: “Build cover into the team before I need it, so I’m not the backup for everything.”
  • One word for the year: “Stretched.”

Reading it back, she notices a pattern she hadn’t seen. Her defining moment, and most of her time, were both about her stepping in. And yet the thing she’s proudest of is the two people who learned to cope without her. The year’s best result came from the part where she stepped back, not the part where she stepped in.

That changes her answer to question four. “Build cover” is still right, but she sharpens it: in January she will pair each of the two strong team members with a newer colleague on the hardest calls, so the skill spreads before the next crisis. It is one change, it is specific, and anyone on the team will be able to see it happen.

Her word, “stretched”, also tells her something. She doesn’t want next year’s word to be the same. That alone is a useful test to carry into the new year.

How do you turn reflection into a change for next year?

Take your answer to the fourth question and make it visible. If nobody else could notice the change by the end of January, it is a resolution, not a change.

A few rules help.

Pick one thing. Five changes become none. One change, done well, often shifts several things at once.

Make it something you do, not something you feel. “Be more strategic” can’t be checked. “Keep Tuesday mornings free of meetings for planning” can.

Put it in the calendar now. Before the break, while the year is still fresh. In January you will be busy again, and the review will feel like a long time ago.

Tell one person. A direct report, your manager, a peer. Saying it out loud makes it more likely to happen and gives someone permission to ask how it’s going.

Look at it again in March. A quick check, not a full review. Did the change happen? Did it help? If not, why not?

Should your team be part of your year in review?

Ideally, yes. Your own reflection shows you how you saw the year. Your team saw it from a different seat, and they often remember different things.

You might think your defining moment was the big launch. Your team might remember the week you cancelled your one-to-ones, or the hard conversation you had early that saved a project. Both views are true. The gap between them is where most of the learning is.

The simplest way to start is to ask. A short, open question in a team meeting, such as “What did we get better at this year?”, will tell you more than you expect. For a fuller look at how to get honest views from your team, read how to find out what your team really thinks of you.

The hard part is honesty. People are more careful with a manager than with anyone else, especially in December, when reviews and pay are close. That is why an anonymous team version helps, and it is what Leader Wrapped is being built to become.

Where should you start?

With the five questions, answered in about two minutes. That’s what Leader Wrapped is for.

It asks you the five questions in this post: the moment that defined your year, what your team got better at, where most of your time went, what you’ll do differently next year and one word for the year. Each one is a single choice, so you pick the answer closest to your year rather than writing an essay. Your answers become a year card with a short piece of share text, in case you want to post it or send it to your team.

It’s free, there’s no sign-up, and your answers stay in your browser. Leader Wrapped is built as a team test that runs each December, with your team answering anonymously. That team version isn’t live yet, so for now you look back on your year yourself. Even on your own, it gives you a clean starting point: five answers, one card and one change to carry into January.

If you want to go deeper on the habits behind your year, such as whether you tell people when you think they’re capable of more, try The 42 Test. It gives you your Leader Code, which is useful to compare against next December. You’ll find other tools for turning points like the end of a year on the Moments that matter page.

The year is going to end either way. An hour of looking back is how you make sure next year is a different one, not just a later one.

Give it one quiet hour in December. Then tell me your word for the year.

Jay

  • Reflection isn’t a luxury. In Harvard research, people who spent 15 minutes a day reflecting outperformed those who simply kept working.
  • Look back on your team’s year, not just your own results: what did they get better at because you were there?
  • Your calendar is the most honest record of your year. Check where the time went before you judge how it went.
  • Five questions are enough. More than that and the review turns into a report nobody reads.
  • End with one change for next year that someone else could see, not a resolution only you know about.
When is the best time to reflect on the year at work?
Early to mid December works well for most leaders. The year is mostly done, but people are still around and you haven’t yet switched off. Leaving it until the last day before the break usually means it gets skipped.
How long should a year in review take?
An hour is plenty for your own reflection. The thinking matters more than the length. If it takes a whole afternoon, you are probably writing a performance report rather than looking back honestly.
Should I share my year in review with my team?
Sharing the short version can help. Tell them the moment you think defined the year, what you think they got better at and the one thing you’ll change. Then ask whether they see it the same way. Their answer is often more useful than yours.
What is the difference between a year in review and a performance review?
A performance review grades results against goals, usually for someone else. A year in review is for you: it asks what happened, what you learned and what you’ll do differently. It is a learning exercise, not a rating.
How do I run an end of year retrospective with my team?
Keep it short and specific. Ask the team what went well, what was hard and what to change next year, and make it safe to be honest. Leader Wrapped is being built as an anonymous team version that runs each December; for now, you can start with your own view.

Question 30 of 42

I tell my team when I think they’re capable of more.

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